Why Am I Still Single? - Online Dating, Dating and Chat Etiquette For Singles

Have you ever looked at your friends who have long term relationships and wondered "when will it be my turn?" Do you ever wonder when Mr. or Ms. Right will come along, and why the universe seems to be making you wait in loneliness and despair? Have you ever thought you're doing something that may be keeping potential mates running scared?

Online dating is helping many singles get out of this rut, thanks to the wonderful world of the internet. This new twist to dating however cannot change you and your possible errors whilst dating in the real world. Perhaps you're making some of these mistakes?

Lets take a look at your appearance and personal hygiene?

Take some time to get ready for your date. Brush those pearly whites. Freshen up your breath. When you chat with your date, bad breath will instantly be a turn off and more times than not end the date pretty quick. SHOWER! Men, be sure to use deodorant. Ladies, don't go overboard on the makeup or perfume, real guys don't like overload when it comes to makeup, we want to see you for who you are, not a fake-barbie girl. Wera appropriate clothing, common sense here, don't wear a suit if you're going for a walk in the park, unless a big night is planned, you get the idea.

Be on your best behaviour, your mom didn't raise you badly now did she ;)

Simply remember this, guys contrary to poular belief, chivalry is NOT dead. Most women appreciate the extra touches. As for you gals, keep eye contact and show interest, if you're bored say so. Men are not mind reader's, we can barely read our own.

Take your time with date one, chat about each other, likes dislikes etc, don't go discussing why you hate your ex. Noone wants to hear about it, this is now, that was then. Enjoy the moment.

Pay attention, there may be a test later. :)

"Uh huh," "yep," "Oh, right..." - you might as well jump ship with that level of interest. This implies that you're bored and would rather be somewhere else, be attentive and show genuine interest, ask questions, make it a conversation, not a lecture.

If you met through an online dating service, you better have your pic on there.

All to often I have heard of guys and gals meeting online and then meeting in person and the photo online is not even close to the person in real life. Instant date killer. As it should be. A photo-lie speaks volumes about you. It tells him/her you are in every sense of the word you are in simple english a liar. Game over.

Are you posing or acting conceited?

A show off is a big turn off, be proud of what you have accomplished while speaking of it but don't come off as being better than the world, you aren't. There is always someone better, so be humble, it shows sincerity and realism.


Don't be TOO modest!

Guys and girls alike don't like people looking for compliments, negativity and insecurity are BIG turn offs.

Don't expect sex the first date, unless you met with the understanding that was part of the evening. 'Nuff said.

A first date will help you both decide if a second is in order, if it is great. But don't push the issue let it happen. That's the best way. A possible future is never going to happen when someone feels pressured.

As far as a good night kiss, you'll know.