It's sadly a fact that some partners cheat.I have gone through it and chances are you may have also.
I am taking a break from writing the final touches on the white paper which will focus on this topic.
Stay tuned, but here is a teaser :)
These sizzling secrets about how to catch a cheating husband or catch a cheating wife or boyfriend or girlfriend have been proven time and time again. They work. So what's the catch? You have to actually do it!
Most people who never find out, do so because they never take action or don't look at what is right in front of them! They don't have the self-esteem and strength to catch their partner cheating. They give up and feel sorry for themselves and continue being walked over like a door mat... rather than take on their cheating partner and their lover and expose their filthy affair.
Open up your eyes and your mind to their lies and deceit and let me help you achieve immediate results with your determination and my dynamic methods.If you really truly want a healthy, happy and fulfilling life ... if you want to start respecting yourself by not letting your partner get away with cheating on you and humiliating you ... there is no doubt in my mind this life-changing information will work for you.
Keep checking back for previews and thoughts.
Sunday, July 20, 2008
Saturday, July 19, 2008
Jolie leaves hospital after giving birth
NICE, France (Reuters) - Angelina Jolie has left the French hospital where she gave birth to twins last week, the hospital said on Saturday.
"Mrs Angelina Jolie left the clinic Santa Maria of Foundation Lenval early in the morning, on July 19. The mother and her babies are doing very well," the Lenval hospital in the southern French city of Nice said in a statement on its website.
Oscar winner Jolie, 33, gave birth to twins Vivienne Marcheline and Knox Leon last week, with actor Brad Pitt, the children's father, by her side.
Jolie slipped out of the hospital unseen by the crowd of reporters, cameramen and photographers camped outside on the fashionable Promenade des Anglais waterfront drive in Nice since she gave birth last weekend.
The precautions reflected the obsessive media interest in Jolie and Pitt, one of Hollywood's most glamorous couples, dubbed "Brangelina" by the celebrity press.
The pair, who have rented a 17th century villa in Provence, reportedly sold picture rights for the babies to a U.S. publication for $11 million, which they will donate to charity.
They have four other children -- Maddox, Pax, Zahara and Shiloh.
(Reporting by Ben Gruber; writing by James Mackenzie; Editing by Jon Boyle)
"Mrs Angelina Jolie left the clinic Santa Maria of Foundation Lenval early in the morning, on July 19. The mother and her babies are doing very well," the Lenval hospital in the southern French city of Nice said in a statement on its website.
Oscar winner Jolie, 33, gave birth to twins Vivienne Marcheline and Knox Leon last week, with actor Brad Pitt, the children's father, by her side.
Jolie slipped out of the hospital unseen by the crowd of reporters, cameramen and photographers camped outside on the fashionable Promenade des Anglais waterfront drive in Nice since she gave birth last weekend.
The precautions reflected the obsessive media interest in Jolie and Pitt, one of Hollywood's most glamorous couples, dubbed "Brangelina" by the celebrity press.
The pair, who have rented a 17th century villa in Provence, reportedly sold picture rights for the babies to a U.S. publication for $11 million, which they will donate to charity.
They have four other children -- Maddox, Pax, Zahara and Shiloh.
(Reporting by Ben Gruber; writing by James Mackenzie; Editing by Jon Boyle)
Thursday, July 17, 2008
10 commandments of steak cooking
There truly is nothing simpler to make for dinner than a steak and a salad.Follow these easy directions to create a perfectly cooked steak every time.
1. Steaks to be cooked quickly in a skillet, on a grill or under the broiler need to be tender cuts. Choose rib eye, filet mignon (tenderloin), strip loin, T-bone and porterhouse varieties.
2. For optimum tenderness, choose steaks that have plenty of marbled fat (don't worry, most of this fat renders out as the steak cooks, leaving only flavour and moisture behind, not extra calories) in the flesh and a modest amount of white fat (known as leaf fat) surrounding the flesh.
3. Avoid buying steaks that are cut thinner than 3/4-inch (1.5-cm) thick since they are often dry and difficult to sear without overcooking.
4. If steaks are very thick (more than 1-1/2 inches/4 cm) cut notches in the surrounding fat so that the steak doesn't curl as it cooks.
5. Bring steak to room temperature before cooking.
6. Preheat pan, grill, or broiling tray until almost smoking before adding meat.
7. Although marinating tender steaks is optional, all steaks taste better if lightly brushed with oil and sprinkled generously with salt and pepper just before cooking.
8. Place a 1-inch (2.5-cm) rib eye, porterhouse or T-bone steak on a hot pan or grill. Reduce heat to medium-high and cook, turning only once, for 6 to 7 minutes for rare, 9 to 12 minutes for medium and (I'm cringing, but if you must), 12 to 15 minutes for well-done (160F/70C).
9. Flank steaks benefit from being marinated overnight and should never be cooked beyond medium. Place a flank steak on a preheated pan and cook for 7 to 10 minutes, turning once. After resting, cut across the grain into thin strips.
10. Tenderloin or filet steaks should not be marinated for longer than 1 hour and, because they are so lean, should not be cooked beyond medium doneness. Place a 1-inch (2.5-cm) medallion of tenderloin on a preheated pan and cook, turning once, for about 5 minutes for rare or 6 to 7 minutes for medium.
Get out there and good eating.
Article courtesy of msn
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
Sex - How to Last Longer in Bed
A great article about sex.
Lovemaking is an experience in itself. Both you and your partner need to enjoy this experience, it is therefore necessary that you last longer in bed to enjoy every minute of it. However, 93% of men experience having orgasm quicker than they wanted to be, desperate men seek unnatural remedies but still fail.
This article is therefore made to provide you with few advices on how you can last longer in bed to pleasure both you and your partner.
Things to remember about sex
· Be confident. Worrying about your performance will definitely affect your performance in while lovemaking.
· Do not think of orgasm as sex. Sex is in itself the experience and whether you orgasm or not, it is still sex. Thinking of orgasm will make you orgasm quicker than you wish it would.
· Think of sex as a pleasurable experience, which both you and your partner need to enjoy. This will stop you from thinking how well you perform.
· Avoid using erecting lotions, creams, sprays and gels. It will hold pre-ejaculation but you will be less sensitive and will lose the great feeling of sex.
Techniques to last longer in bed
· Relax, do not rush things, enjoy the experience and you may possibly control your orgasm long enough as you want it to.
· Extend the foreplay. Foreplay will give a higher level of pleasure for your partner. Penetration will come easy when both of you have enjoyed the sex together.
· If possible, be underneath your partner. This will help you control orgasm that will lead to longer sex experience.
· Do not rush thrusting, being too excited about the penetration will speed up orgasm. You, of course, do not want this.
Relaxing and keeping pace during sex may be difficult, but if you want to stay longer in bed with your partner pleasured as you do, you surely want to learn how to do this.
Patience is always the secret of improving in any endeavor. Sex is an endeavor if you wanted to ensure pleasure for yourself and your partner. You need to learn how to control yourself and feel every moment of your lovemaking.
My special secret on how to last an extra 32 mins!
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Emma_Drosy
Lovemaking is an experience in itself. Both you and your partner need to enjoy this experience, it is therefore necessary that you last longer in bed to enjoy every minute of it. However, 93% of men experience having orgasm quicker than they wanted to be, desperate men seek unnatural remedies but still fail.
This article is therefore made to provide you with few advices on how you can last longer in bed to pleasure both you and your partner.
Things to remember about sex
· Be confident. Worrying about your performance will definitely affect your performance in while lovemaking.
· Do not think of orgasm as sex. Sex is in itself the experience and whether you orgasm or not, it is still sex. Thinking of orgasm will make you orgasm quicker than you wish it would.
· Think of sex as a pleasurable experience, which both you and your partner need to enjoy. This will stop you from thinking how well you perform.
· Avoid using erecting lotions, creams, sprays and gels. It will hold pre-ejaculation but you will be less sensitive and will lose the great feeling of sex.
Techniques to last longer in bed
· Relax, do not rush things, enjoy the experience and you may possibly control your orgasm long enough as you want it to.
· Extend the foreplay. Foreplay will give a higher level of pleasure for your partner. Penetration will come easy when both of you have enjoyed the sex together.
· If possible, be underneath your partner. This will help you control orgasm that will lead to longer sex experience.
· Do not rush thrusting, being too excited about the penetration will speed up orgasm. You, of course, do not want this.
Relaxing and keeping pace during sex may be difficult, but if you want to stay longer in bed with your partner pleasured as you do, you surely want to learn how to do this.
Patience is always the secret of improving in any endeavor. Sex is an endeavor if you wanted to ensure pleasure for yourself and your partner. You need to learn how to control yourself and feel every moment of your lovemaking.
My special secret on how to last an extra 32 mins!
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Emma_Drosy
Love at a Distance
5 rules to making a long distance relationship last
1. Communicate in some way every day
2. Don't avoid the important questions
3.Consider yourself lucky
4. Find creative ways to bond
5. Know when to call it quits
Long distance relationships can often be just as fun, loving and difficult as traditional relationships.
There are always ups and downs, there are always good and bad times. There is an old saying that holds true for all couples who truly want to be together and who truly love each other, one I personally live by daily.
It goes like this:
"I don't love you because I need you
I need you because I love you."
Never mind money, possessions, the big home etc. All of these items can be lost in a heart beat. If you don't have love you don't have a reason to make it last.
I will be discussing this topic each day or so for the next little while. Hope you enjoy.
1. Communicate in some way every day
2. Don't avoid the important questions
3.Consider yourself lucky
4. Find creative ways to bond
5. Know when to call it quits
Long distance relationships can often be just as fun, loving and difficult as traditional relationships.
There are always ups and downs, there are always good and bad times. There is an old saying that holds true for all couples who truly want to be together and who truly love each other, one I personally live by daily.
It goes like this:
"I don't love you because I need you
I need you because I love you."
Never mind money, possessions, the big home etc. All of these items can be lost in a heart beat. If you don't have love you don't have a reason to make it last.
I will be discussing this topic each day or so for the next little while. Hope you enjoy.
Sunday, July 13, 2008
Cool article about friends dating friends, whataboutme?
I like this article that was just sent to me so I wanted to share with everyone. Hope you enjoy it.
Oh, I am not trying to rip anyone off I don't know the article source. I did nor write it myself.
Drawing the Line: Friends Don't Date Friends' Exes
Relationships can be tricky, but certain situations can be down right icky.
Let’s say one of your relatively good friends was seeing a guy for a short period of time. Nothing was official and nothing was officially dismissed, but you suddenly find yourself being attracted to this somewhat spoken-for beau. How about the love affair that lasted a year, but has been over for two? What do you do? Do you flirt with him regardless and hope your friend doesn’t notice? Or do you bow out even though your hormones are on overdrive?
This is a tricky situation that can inspire a variety of reactions in people. There are the people who immediately dismiss such behaviour, since once someone has been touched (no pun intended) by a friend, they are off limits. I get it and agree, but as always, there’s a grey area that most people don’t think about until it actually happens to them. Needless to say, this sort of situation has come up for a friend of mine recently, and it got me thinking about the factors that can make the difference between a green light and a red light when it comes to dating a friend’s ex.
Time
Everyone has that person or perhaps people that once possessed their heart and mind. No matter how much time passes, there’s still a feeling of nostalgia and a certain form of affection that remains. It could be years, but the moment a friend takes an interest in a certain ex, it’s totally natural to be a little upset. But how much is too much? I suppose that’s a judgment call on a case-by-case basis, which is where the grey areas begin. What about the romances that have just recently ended? These can be extremely messy situations as your friend might claim to be over it, but still be smitten. There are all kinds of people who hide their true feelings to save face. It’s important to take this into consideration before you broach the issue.
Closure
Regardless of whether the relationship’s been over for one month or one year, without closure this means nothing. Think about it: who’s had trouble getting over a once true love? Yeah, I thought so. Sometimes from the outside it’s easy to be judgmental and decide that your friend must be over that guy or girl because it’s been so long. This is not always the case. With the romantic rendezvous that don’t have a clear cut ending, the alarm bells should be going off. Stepping into a situation where the boundaries are blurred and the parties involved aren’t entirely sure of where they stand is a surefire way to make an awkward set up even worse. Additional drama? No thanks.
Communication
Let’s say you’ve taken these things into consideration, and you’ve decided that the attraction is too strong and you want to bring up your developing crush with your friend. Be very, very careful as to how you broach the subject. Honesty is definitely a good call and chances are it could potentially get a little awkward, but stick with it. It’s important to get a straight up and clear answer from your friend before making any moves. It would also be a good idea to do a little bit of reading between the lines. When you discuss this topic, chances are the time that has passed and the way the relationship ended will come up, so take care to compare your conclusions and the ones offered by your friend.
Motives
I’m not trying to turn you into jaded skeptics when it comes to finding love, but the underlying objectives of your friend’s ex could be worth a minute or two of thought. Just like your friend could be struggling with her leftover feelings, so could this new person in your life. Who hasn’t tried to make an ex jealous? What could work better than dating one of their friends? Of course, I’m not trying to suggest that everyone has sneaky underhanded motives, but unfortunately, the world is not perfect and things like this do happen. If you’re risking getting into icky friend territory by even bringing up dating an ex, it might be smart to consider all angles.
lots of fish
What does all this have to do with Bruce? Well nothing directly, but once I started thinking about this, I started thinking about how I would feel if any of my friends wanted to date him after we broke up. Yeah, I would definitely not be okay with that. I’m not just saying that because I’m in love with him now. I’m saying that because I can see that the love I feel for him will never actually go away. If we did break up and a friend said she wanted to date him, I’m pretty sure I’d want to rip her face off, but I might just try to hide it with an awkward smile. Alright, alright, probably not. My personal opinion is that emotions are a seriously tricky thing and if you can’t be 100 per cent sure that your friend will be alright with your budding feelings, I’d say steer clear of the situation all together. There are so many millions of people out there that your friends haven’t dated. Go find one of those because they’re so much more fun anyway!
So boys and gals. Don't break the golden rule!!
Be good, have a great day!!
Whataboutme my new "fav" saying lol.
Oh, I am not trying to rip anyone off I don't know the article source. I did nor write it myself.
Drawing the Line: Friends Don't Date Friends' Exes
Relationships can be tricky, but certain situations can be down right icky.
Let’s say one of your relatively good friends was seeing a guy for a short period of time. Nothing was official and nothing was officially dismissed, but you suddenly find yourself being attracted to this somewhat spoken-for beau. How about the love affair that lasted a year, but has been over for two? What do you do? Do you flirt with him regardless and hope your friend doesn’t notice? Or do you bow out even though your hormones are on overdrive?
This is a tricky situation that can inspire a variety of reactions in people. There are the people who immediately dismiss such behaviour, since once someone has been touched (no pun intended) by a friend, they are off limits. I get it and agree, but as always, there’s a grey area that most people don’t think about until it actually happens to them. Needless to say, this sort of situation has come up for a friend of mine recently, and it got me thinking about the factors that can make the difference between a green light and a red light when it comes to dating a friend’s ex.
Time
Everyone has that person or perhaps people that once possessed their heart and mind. No matter how much time passes, there’s still a feeling of nostalgia and a certain form of affection that remains. It could be years, but the moment a friend takes an interest in a certain ex, it’s totally natural to be a little upset. But how much is too much? I suppose that’s a judgment call on a case-by-case basis, which is where the grey areas begin. What about the romances that have just recently ended? These can be extremely messy situations as your friend might claim to be over it, but still be smitten. There are all kinds of people who hide their true feelings to save face. It’s important to take this into consideration before you broach the issue.
Closure
Regardless of whether the relationship’s been over for one month or one year, without closure this means nothing. Think about it: who’s had trouble getting over a once true love? Yeah, I thought so. Sometimes from the outside it’s easy to be judgmental and decide that your friend must be over that guy or girl because it’s been so long. This is not always the case. With the romantic rendezvous that don’t have a clear cut ending, the alarm bells should be going off. Stepping into a situation where the boundaries are blurred and the parties involved aren’t entirely sure of where they stand is a surefire way to make an awkward set up even worse. Additional drama? No thanks.
Communication
Let’s say you’ve taken these things into consideration, and you’ve decided that the attraction is too strong and you want to bring up your developing crush with your friend. Be very, very careful as to how you broach the subject. Honesty is definitely a good call and chances are it could potentially get a little awkward, but stick with it. It’s important to get a straight up and clear answer from your friend before making any moves. It would also be a good idea to do a little bit of reading between the lines. When you discuss this topic, chances are the time that has passed and the way the relationship ended will come up, so take care to compare your conclusions and the ones offered by your friend.
Motives
I’m not trying to turn you into jaded skeptics when it comes to finding love, but the underlying objectives of your friend’s ex could be worth a minute or two of thought. Just like your friend could be struggling with her leftover feelings, so could this new person in your life. Who hasn’t tried to make an ex jealous? What could work better than dating one of their friends? Of course, I’m not trying to suggest that everyone has sneaky underhanded motives, but unfortunately, the world is not perfect and things like this do happen. If you’re risking getting into icky friend territory by even bringing up dating an ex, it might be smart to consider all angles.
lots of fish
What does all this have to do with Bruce? Well nothing directly, but once I started thinking about this, I started thinking about how I would feel if any of my friends wanted to date him after we broke up. Yeah, I would definitely not be okay with that. I’m not just saying that because I’m in love with him now. I’m saying that because I can see that the love I feel for him will never actually go away. If we did break up and a friend said she wanted to date him, I’m pretty sure I’d want to rip her face off, but I might just try to hide it with an awkward smile. Alright, alright, probably not. My personal opinion is that emotions are a seriously tricky thing and if you can’t be 100 per cent sure that your friend will be alright with your budding feelings, I’d say steer clear of the situation all together. There are so many millions of people out there that your friends haven’t dated. Go find one of those because they’re so much more fun anyway!
So boys and gals. Don't break the golden rule!!
Be good, have a great day!!
Whataboutme my new "fav" saying lol.
Saturday, July 12, 2008
Do Not Let Anyone Tell You That You Can Not Make a Million Dollars - Just Be Different
Dream Killers
There are a lot of dream killers out there. People who call themselves your friends and family but doubt your ambitions. These people can tear your goals right out of your heart in minutes. It only takes one bad apple to destroy a bunch of goals. Negative people thrive on you being like them. To make a million dollars requires only one quest and that is best defined by your ability to be different.
Being Different Is Not An Option - It Is A Must
You cannot make a million dollars being like everyone else. You must be different. You must do the opposite of what so-called normal everyday people do. You are what you believe. If you share the same thinking as the people who mock your dreams you will become just like them, a non-believer. The bottom line is for you to broaden your scope. True, a million dollars is not easy to make. For most people that is more money then they will see in a lifetime. But those should not be reasons enough to stop you from making your dream of earning a million dollars come true.
How big is a million dollars? Lets say you have a product that sells for $20. To make a million dollars you would have to sell 50,000 units of your product at $20 each. Now 50,000 is a big number, let's divide that into weeks. Weekly 962 sales would be needed to reach this lofty goal. That number is still a bit high so lets reduce it even further. Each day you would need to sell 137 units 7 days a week 365 days a year to make a million dollars. Reducing the daily into hourly would mean that you would need to sell about 6 units an hour on a 24 hourly basis.
Lets Make This Work.
At this point you have a good idea of how you can make a million dollars as far as how the money needs to be made. All you need now is a plan. To make this plan come true you start by analyzing what needs to be done a day in advance to make the next day profitable. In a word you need leverage. Leverage will allow you to multiply your efforts times itself. It is like being in many places at the exact same time even though you are only occupying just one location. The internet allows you to do that.
Imagine for a moment the power of this article. What if you wrote 137 articles and each article earned you $20 each, at the end of the month you would have earned $2740. Suppose you wrote more articles and received one $20 payment each month from it? The result you would get is called leverage. Here is a formula for success; lets multiply 137 times 30 days. Your total would be 4,110 articles. Are you starting to see my point? Sure it takes a lot of work but are you willing to do this work to earn $82,200 each month or in greater terms a million dollars a year.
It Is Time To Be Determined
What if earning money was as simple as that. Go to any website and what do you see? A bunch of words or we could say articles. When you watch TV you expect to see pictures moving. Likewise with the internet you should always expect to read. The value of your wealth on the internet is determined by what is being written by you or by someone else about your product or service.
Writing articles has become my best asset. I enjoy it and I am expanding this as my number 1 marketing approach everyday. Now I am in control of my financial destiny. Every time I write an article a back link is created linking my readers to my website. This simple step gives me a greater presence on the internet. The final result for me will be to earn millions of dollars.
You can have these same results. Remember it will take work to realize a million dollar income. You can do this. Never let anyone tell you that you cannot make a million dollars. The choice is yours. Find a system that works and stick to it. Do not buy a negative persons beliefs. You deserve the best and the best is looking for you. Now go ahead and make your million dollars. Never forget that to get there all you have to do is to be willing to do what others won't so that you can live like others don't. Be different! Go get em!
Written By Marvin Kane, Chief Internet Marketing Director http://www.moneydrama.com
Earn As You Learn. After marketing on the internet for over 20 Years. Marvin Kane will show you what you need to know to build your business. Make thousands as you learn incredible marketing techniques from the ground up. Use the money to fund current and future projects. To be the next hit on the internet visit the following link to see how we have implemented the techniques from the article above to work for our success. Visit http://www.moneydrama.com
There are a lot of dream killers out there. People who call themselves your friends and family but doubt your ambitions. These people can tear your goals right out of your heart in minutes. It only takes one bad apple to destroy a bunch of goals. Negative people thrive on you being like them. To make a million dollars requires only one quest and that is best defined by your ability to be different.
Being Different Is Not An Option - It Is A Must
You cannot make a million dollars being like everyone else. You must be different. You must do the opposite of what so-called normal everyday people do. You are what you believe. If you share the same thinking as the people who mock your dreams you will become just like them, a non-believer. The bottom line is for you to broaden your scope. True, a million dollars is not easy to make. For most people that is more money then they will see in a lifetime. But those should not be reasons enough to stop you from making your dream of earning a million dollars come true.
How big is a million dollars? Lets say you have a product that sells for $20. To make a million dollars you would have to sell 50,000 units of your product at $20 each. Now 50,000 is a big number, let's divide that into weeks. Weekly 962 sales would be needed to reach this lofty goal. That number is still a bit high so lets reduce it even further. Each day you would need to sell 137 units 7 days a week 365 days a year to make a million dollars. Reducing the daily into hourly would mean that you would need to sell about 6 units an hour on a 24 hourly basis.
Lets Make This Work.
At this point you have a good idea of how you can make a million dollars as far as how the money needs to be made. All you need now is a plan. To make this plan come true you start by analyzing what needs to be done a day in advance to make the next day profitable. In a word you need leverage. Leverage will allow you to multiply your efforts times itself. It is like being in many places at the exact same time even though you are only occupying just one location. The internet allows you to do that.
Imagine for a moment the power of this article. What if you wrote 137 articles and each article earned you $20 each, at the end of the month you would have earned $2740. Suppose you wrote more articles and received one $20 payment each month from it? The result you would get is called leverage. Here is a formula for success; lets multiply 137 times 30 days. Your total would be 4,110 articles. Are you starting to see my point? Sure it takes a lot of work but are you willing to do this work to earn $82,200 each month or in greater terms a million dollars a year.
It Is Time To Be Determined
What if earning money was as simple as that. Go to any website and what do you see? A bunch of words or we could say articles. When you watch TV you expect to see pictures moving. Likewise with the internet you should always expect to read. The value of your wealth on the internet is determined by what is being written by you or by someone else about your product or service.
Writing articles has become my best asset. I enjoy it and I am expanding this as my number 1 marketing approach everyday. Now I am in control of my financial destiny. Every time I write an article a back link is created linking my readers to my website. This simple step gives me a greater presence on the internet. The final result for me will be to earn millions of dollars.
You can have these same results. Remember it will take work to realize a million dollar income. You can do this. Never let anyone tell you that you cannot make a million dollars. The choice is yours. Find a system that works and stick to it. Do not buy a negative persons beliefs. You deserve the best and the best is looking for you. Now go ahead and make your million dollars. Never forget that to get there all you have to do is to be willing to do what others won't so that you can live like others don't. Be different! Go get em!
Written By Marvin Kane, Chief Internet Marketing Director http://www.moneydrama.com
Earn As You Learn. After marketing on the internet for over 20 Years. Marvin Kane will show you what you need to know to build your business. Make thousands as you learn incredible marketing techniques from the ground up. Use the money to fund current and future projects. To be the next hit on the internet visit the following link to see how we have implemented the techniques from the article above to work for our success. Visit http://www.moneydrama.com
Thursday, July 10, 2008
Dating Tips For Women - How to Know If He is Serious About You
10 signs to tell that he is serious about you!
1) He seeks your opinion in everything from minor decisions to major ones
It could be something as simple as buying a tie to match his shirt. Or major ones like what car he should buy. It shows that he values your opinions and thinks that you have great judgement and insight as well.
2) He wants you to meet his family, friends and everybody else
He is serious in making you part of his social circle and does not see you as just another casual date when he wants you to meet his family.
3) He spends a lot of time together with you
If he is not genuinely interested in you, would he spend time with you rather than go for his favourite soccer match with his buddies?
4) He does not show signs that he is terrified when you mention something happening in a year or two
It shows that he is serious about the relationship he has with you. He can see himself being with you even two years later.
5) He calls you many times a day, but does not admit he misses you
When he calls you, he may find an excuse to do so, like asking you what you are doing currently, finding out what you have eaten for dinner, but never saying the words "I miss hearing your voice, that's why I called".
6) He remembers your favourite food and brings it to you by surprise
You probably casually mentioned that you love the brownie from that café only once, but he remembered and brought it to you without you asking for it. If he is not serious about you, would he have remembered what you say to such detail?
7) He lets you choose the restaurants you want to go and the movies you want to watch
Even if he does not like spicy stuff, but you love curry to bits, he will accompany you and even treat you to a meal at a nice Indian restaurant. How sweet can it get? If he does not treat you seriously, why would he bother to cater to you?
8) He can't wait to tell you what happened in the day
Every night he updates you with how he spent his day, without you asking first. He finds it a joy sharing these intimate details with you. When he hears a new joke, he can't wait to call you immediately and make you laugh.
9) He is willing to share details of his finances with you
The topic of finances can be quite sensitive and is usually not something that is openly shared, even with friends. If he is willing to tell you, he probably treats you more than a casual friend!
10) He rushes to your side upon hearing that you are sick
Even if it is really late at night and he has an important meeting the next morning, he is willing to come and bring you to the doctor. Only a guy who is serious about you will be that worried!
Well, if you find all these signs all too familiar, it is most likely true that he is serious about you and your relationship. Although he may not have said the three magic words to you yet and have not officially asked you to be his gal, you can be quite assured that he really cares about you. If you like him as well, you can be sure that it will be reciprocated. Just don't take too long to admit how you both feel about each other!
Angela is an active love coach in her community and a writer for a wedding blog.
She shares more tips about love and romance at http://yourloveangel.blogspot.com
1) He seeks your opinion in everything from minor decisions to major ones
It could be something as simple as buying a tie to match his shirt. Or major ones like what car he should buy. It shows that he values your opinions and thinks that you have great judgement and insight as well.
2) He wants you to meet his family, friends and everybody else
He is serious in making you part of his social circle and does not see you as just another casual date when he wants you to meet his family.
3) He spends a lot of time together with you
If he is not genuinely interested in you, would he spend time with you rather than go for his favourite soccer match with his buddies?
4) He does not show signs that he is terrified when you mention something happening in a year or two
It shows that he is serious about the relationship he has with you. He can see himself being with you even two years later.
5) He calls you many times a day, but does not admit he misses you
When he calls you, he may find an excuse to do so, like asking you what you are doing currently, finding out what you have eaten for dinner, but never saying the words "I miss hearing your voice, that's why I called".
6) He remembers your favourite food and brings it to you by surprise
You probably casually mentioned that you love the brownie from that café only once, but he remembered and brought it to you without you asking for it. If he is not serious about you, would he have remembered what you say to such detail?
7) He lets you choose the restaurants you want to go and the movies you want to watch
Even if he does not like spicy stuff, but you love curry to bits, he will accompany you and even treat you to a meal at a nice Indian restaurant. How sweet can it get? If he does not treat you seriously, why would he bother to cater to you?
8) He can't wait to tell you what happened in the day
Every night he updates you with how he spent his day, without you asking first. He finds it a joy sharing these intimate details with you. When he hears a new joke, he can't wait to call you immediately and make you laugh.
9) He is willing to share details of his finances with you
The topic of finances can be quite sensitive and is usually not something that is openly shared, even with friends. If he is willing to tell you, he probably treats you more than a casual friend!
10) He rushes to your side upon hearing that you are sick
Even if it is really late at night and he has an important meeting the next morning, he is willing to come and bring you to the doctor. Only a guy who is serious about you will be that worried!
Well, if you find all these signs all too familiar, it is most likely true that he is serious about you and your relationship. Although he may not have said the three magic words to you yet and have not officially asked you to be his gal, you can be quite assured that he really cares about you. If you like him as well, you can be sure that it will be reciprocated. Just don't take too long to admit how you both feel about each other!
Angela is an active love coach in her community and a writer for a wedding blog.
She shares more tips about love and romance at http://yourloveangel.blogspot.com
Monday, July 7, 2008
Relationships and real love, whataboutme.
We all have "the one" that got away. It always makes us think about what could have been...doesn't it? This has driven both men and women to such low points in their lives that depression or anger or mixed feelings has even led to thoughts of suicide, sadly a few have done the deed.
When people end a relationship, more often than not no amount of time will heal what caused the relationship to end. Save for a lucky few.
When you think "I want this person back" ask yourself a few questions.
1. Do I want them back because I am lonely? (quite possibly)
2. Am I a failure? (probably not :))
3. Did I do something wrong? (Maybe you did, maybe they did)
4. Do I like myself enough to move on?
5. Am I worthy of someone else? (Of course you are)
Understand that very few couples get the "dream" come true, the life forever with "the one". I myself have gone through divorce, but I did not lose it because my marriage was over long before it ended. I don't hold any anger or feelings of resentment, it simply didn't work. So I took some time, got over it, dusted myself of and moved on.
So can you!
If however, you really want to meet up with an ex, do one thing to really get them thinking about why you ended it.
In a nutshell, change your look or how you live. Believe it or not (and this applies to men and women) when a relationship ends, secretly we always blame the other person, don't we? Let them blame you, for whatever reason and when you see them again, prove them wrong.
It drives an ex crazy with mixed emotion when they see you have become what they wanted you to be. Just change for you, not for them.
Smile, remember the "good time" you had lol. Wish them the best. Remain friends.
I am truly envious though if you meet an ex and you get them back.
I would love to hear about it.
Good luck.
When people end a relationship, more often than not no amount of time will heal what caused the relationship to end. Save for a lucky few.
When you think "I want this person back" ask yourself a few questions.
1. Do I want them back because I am lonely? (quite possibly)
2. Am I a failure? (probably not :))
3. Did I do something wrong? (Maybe you did, maybe they did)
4. Do I like myself enough to move on?
5. Am I worthy of someone else? (Of course you are)
Understand that very few couples get the "dream" come true, the life forever with "the one". I myself have gone through divorce, but I did not lose it because my marriage was over long before it ended. I don't hold any anger or feelings of resentment, it simply didn't work. So I took some time, got over it, dusted myself of and moved on.
So can you!
If however, you really want to meet up with an ex, do one thing to really get them thinking about why you ended it.
In a nutshell, change your look or how you live. Believe it or not (and this applies to men and women) when a relationship ends, secretly we always blame the other person, don't we? Let them blame you, for whatever reason and when you see them again, prove them wrong.
It drives an ex crazy with mixed emotion when they see you have become what they wanted you to be. Just change for you, not for them.
Smile, remember the "good time" you had lol. Wish them the best. Remain friends.
I am truly envious though if you meet an ex and you get them back.
I would love to hear about it.
Good luck.
Sunday, July 6, 2008
11 great places to meet women
A fun and often spoke of topic by most single men, and sadly, a small percentage of married men, usually unhappy ones.
This conversation has led to hour long debates in this mold of men, this ban of brothers if you will. Well after much ado about nothing it has been down sized to eleven places to meet women, in no particular order. These places are "the usual" suspects albeit with a twist.
Enjoy.
You're at a bar, and you see someone you're attracted to that's not the waitress. So you think, "I'm gonna go over and say hi just as soon as I finish this beer. And this Jäger shot. And this other beer."
Then, before you can act, Joe Computer Game Designer comes along and starts chatting up your love of the evening.
If this situation is too close to home, it might be time to consider an alternative. For starters, forget nightclubs. Those are for amateurs. Women go because they know guys will hit on them, and they're prepared for that. They're with their girlfriends, they see you coming, they've heard it all. All they want is an ego-boost and some entertainment as you try to impress her with your knowledge of fantasy baseball.
Bars are better but you have to consider all the distractions -- loud music, other guys, the hot nut machine. Instead, think about other places, maybe even everyday places that would be conducive to spontaneous, friendly conversation, light interaction and possibly gentle flirtation.
Consider any romantic comedy you've ever seen: how many of the couples have ever met at a nightclub (except for Knocked Up -- and you know what happened there!)? And who are romantic comedies aimed at? "Women want to be the stars of their own romantic comedy," as David Wygant, the dating expert who inspired the movie Hitch, has pointed out. Translation: women want to meet guys outside of the usual haunts.
For one thing, such encounters seem much more fateful -- there's no sense of destiny in meeting someone at a bar. For another, a novel meeting will giver her something to talk about. "I told my friend someone I met standing in line at the post office asked me for coffee," says Nicole Williams, a fuel-cell researcher in Vancouver. "And he thought that was weird, just because that never happens in this city." Nonetheless, her friend's opinion didn't stop her. If anything, it spurred her on.
So reconsider that girl at the supermarket, in the bank lineup, at the gym, in the parole board waiting room. They're probably more open to a friendly "hello" and a bit of conversation than you think. And with that in mind, we've come up with a few places we think are a little bit out of the ordinary but possibly perfect.
1. Gas stations
We've had gas stations in mind ever since we heard a story actor James Woods told on a late-night talk show about how he met his then-wife while filling his tank. "I asked her about the car she was driving because I said I was thinking about buying one," said the actor. And hey, how about these rising gas prices? Sheesh!
2. The Beach
OK, maybe this one's a little on the obvious side. But... think of the beach as one giant meeting place. Everyone's relaxed and there's always a topic of conversation -- from "Yes, that's one of Danielle Steel's best..." to "Can you oil the small of my back?" "The beach is fine," says the workout goddess next to us on the treadmill. "Because it's a neutral place and unthreatening. Everyone's there to relax and have a good time."
3. Classes
"Not at the gym," says Katherine M., a government worker. "I'm sweaty, and I'm there to work out." But we think fitness classes are ideal. "If you go to a yoga class and you have really strong leg muscles, all the women are like, 'Ooh, who's that?" says 25-year-old server Roseanna Marsh. "And if there's a guy in a Pilates class, the girls will be all over him." But don't just think fitness. Think cooking, language or emergency preparedness -- maybe it's just us, but don't you want your next girlfriend to have her own industrial-strength flashlight and six months' supply of canned goods?
4. Laundromats
What could be sexier or more provocative than all those frilly things tumbling around in a hot, vibrating container? Plus, there's something about meeting at the laundromat that says "destiny," especially on a Friday or Saturday night. Not that we would know. Plus everyone's kind of bored and most likely dying for a conversation. "Hmmm, I guess it would be OK," says student Anna Carruth, "as long as I'm not washing my thongs."
5. Wine Tastings
A no-brainer, really. Wine has never been sexier than at this moment in time and women love their wine. A little effort on your part and you should be able to find a tasting -- whether at a store or a fundraiser or trade show -- in your city. From there, it's a simple matter to brush up on your lingo, at least enough to bluff your way around a pinot noir. Drop the line, "A hint of black cherry in the finish" and she'll be putty at your feet.
6. Political Rallies/Protests
Sure, they might turn into riots (remember "the Battle in Seattle?") with tear gas and Taser guns, but what's more romantic than meeting someone special while running from baton-wielding police?
7. Seniors Homes
No, we're not advocating picking up the elderly, though they do have the best stories. But we couldn't help notice, the last time we visited our dear old gran (R.I.P.), that her extended care facility was staffed by a bevy of beauties. Best of all, women you meet at a seniors' home are bound to be compassionate, caring... and willing to put up with your incontinence which may come in handy down the road. Hospitals are also good, says Michael Kissinger. "It shows you're vulnerable," says the journalist.
8. Church
Just because she's praying doesn't mean she's unavailable. In fact, she might be going to church to get from the Man Upstairs what she's not getting from the men in her life. But guys, be careful with this one; show some respect, and have some Bible, or at least biblical-sounding, psalms or quotes or something to throw out there when the conversation turns to spirituality. Or rent The Ten Commandments. "When I was in Bible study class, I met a group of singles," says Kim Brakop, a graphic designer and born-again Christian. "We'd always get together and then go for brunch after. I think a couple became paired. But there wasn't pressure to do that."
9. Bookstores
An obvious one, perhaps, but we're talking specifically about the self-help section. Happy, contented women in relationships aren't the ones flipping through He's Just Not Into You. These are women likely to be single. Plus, browsing the self-help section yourself makes you look as though you're "doing some work" on yourself (as if... right guys?). And it's easy to strike up a conversation about the important stuff -- dating, relationships and chakras.
10. Paintball
Since we are fascinated by the idea of paintball but would usually just rather stay inside scrapbooking, this is one idea we never would have thought of on our own. It comes courtesy Dylan Alexander, author of Online Casanova , who tells us "the downtime in between games" is a good time to meet women, as everyone is in an excited state and there's a feeling of high energy in the field or forest or jungle or wherever it is you do such things. One downside: the goggles and facemasks can make it difficult to see who you're talking to.
11. Strip Clubs
Yes, you read that right. Another of Alexander's suggestions. But don't go for the strippers, he says. "Go for the girls who go to watch. They are in an excited state and tipsy, and there's lots of downtime between dancers." You're best off approaching the whole group, although if it's a girl's night out you might have your work cut out for you. In which case, you can always get a lap dance.
A great article writtem by By Shawn Conner and emailed to me by a friend.
This conversation has led to hour long debates in this mold of men, this ban of brothers if you will. Well after much ado about nothing it has been down sized to eleven places to meet women, in no particular order. These places are "the usual" suspects albeit with a twist.
Enjoy.
You're at a bar, and you see someone you're attracted to that's not the waitress. So you think, "I'm gonna go over and say hi just as soon as I finish this beer. And this Jäger shot. And this other beer."
Then, before you can act, Joe Computer Game Designer comes along and starts chatting up your love of the evening.
If this situation is too close to home, it might be time to consider an alternative. For starters, forget nightclubs. Those are for amateurs. Women go because they know guys will hit on them, and they're prepared for that. They're with their girlfriends, they see you coming, they've heard it all. All they want is an ego-boost and some entertainment as you try to impress her with your knowledge of fantasy baseball.
Bars are better but you have to consider all the distractions -- loud music, other guys, the hot nut machine. Instead, think about other places, maybe even everyday places that would be conducive to spontaneous, friendly conversation, light interaction and possibly gentle flirtation.
Consider any romantic comedy you've ever seen: how many of the couples have ever met at a nightclub (except for Knocked Up -- and you know what happened there!)? And who are romantic comedies aimed at? "Women want to be the stars of their own romantic comedy," as David Wygant, the dating expert who inspired the movie Hitch, has pointed out. Translation: women want to meet guys outside of the usual haunts.
For one thing, such encounters seem much more fateful -- there's no sense of destiny in meeting someone at a bar. For another, a novel meeting will giver her something to talk about. "I told my friend someone I met standing in line at the post office asked me for coffee," says Nicole Williams, a fuel-cell researcher in Vancouver. "And he thought that was weird, just because that never happens in this city." Nonetheless, her friend's opinion didn't stop her. If anything, it spurred her on.
So reconsider that girl at the supermarket, in the bank lineup, at the gym, in the parole board waiting room. They're probably more open to a friendly "hello" and a bit of conversation than you think. And with that in mind, we've come up with a few places we think are a little bit out of the ordinary but possibly perfect.
1. Gas stations
We've had gas stations in mind ever since we heard a story actor James Woods told on a late-night talk show about how he met his then-wife while filling his tank. "I asked her about the car she was driving because I said I was thinking about buying one," said the actor. And hey, how about these rising gas prices? Sheesh!
2. The Beach
OK, maybe this one's a little on the obvious side. But... think of the beach as one giant meeting place. Everyone's relaxed and there's always a topic of conversation -- from "Yes, that's one of Danielle Steel's best..." to "Can you oil the small of my back?" "The beach is fine," says the workout goddess next to us on the treadmill. "Because it's a neutral place and unthreatening. Everyone's there to relax and have a good time."
3. Classes
"Not at the gym," says Katherine M., a government worker. "I'm sweaty, and I'm there to work out." But we think fitness classes are ideal. "If you go to a yoga class and you have really strong leg muscles, all the women are like, 'Ooh, who's that?" says 25-year-old server Roseanna Marsh. "And if there's a guy in a Pilates class, the girls will be all over him." But don't just think fitness. Think cooking, language or emergency preparedness -- maybe it's just us, but don't you want your next girlfriend to have her own industrial-strength flashlight and six months' supply of canned goods?
4. Laundromats
What could be sexier or more provocative than all those frilly things tumbling around in a hot, vibrating container? Plus, there's something about meeting at the laundromat that says "destiny," especially on a Friday or Saturday night. Not that we would know. Plus everyone's kind of bored and most likely dying for a conversation. "Hmmm, I guess it would be OK," says student Anna Carruth, "as long as I'm not washing my thongs."
5. Wine Tastings
A no-brainer, really. Wine has never been sexier than at this moment in time and women love their wine. A little effort on your part and you should be able to find a tasting -- whether at a store or a fundraiser or trade show -- in your city. From there, it's a simple matter to brush up on your lingo, at least enough to bluff your way around a pinot noir. Drop the line, "A hint of black cherry in the finish" and she'll be putty at your feet.
6. Political Rallies/Protests
Sure, they might turn into riots (remember "the Battle in Seattle?") with tear gas and Taser guns, but what's more romantic than meeting someone special while running from baton-wielding police?
7. Seniors Homes
No, we're not advocating picking up the elderly, though they do have the best stories. But we couldn't help notice, the last time we visited our dear old gran (R.I.P.), that her extended care facility was staffed by a bevy of beauties. Best of all, women you meet at a seniors' home are bound to be compassionate, caring... and willing to put up with your incontinence which may come in handy down the road. Hospitals are also good, says Michael Kissinger. "It shows you're vulnerable," says the journalist.
8. Church
Just because she's praying doesn't mean she's unavailable. In fact, she might be going to church to get from the Man Upstairs what she's not getting from the men in her life. But guys, be careful with this one; show some respect, and have some Bible, or at least biblical-sounding, psalms or quotes or something to throw out there when the conversation turns to spirituality. Or rent The Ten Commandments. "When I was in Bible study class, I met a group of singles," says Kim Brakop, a graphic designer and born-again Christian. "We'd always get together and then go for brunch after. I think a couple became paired. But there wasn't pressure to do that."
9. Bookstores
An obvious one, perhaps, but we're talking specifically about the self-help section. Happy, contented women in relationships aren't the ones flipping through He's Just Not Into You. These are women likely to be single. Plus, browsing the self-help section yourself makes you look as though you're "doing some work" on yourself (as if... right guys?). And it's easy to strike up a conversation about the important stuff -- dating, relationships and chakras.
10. Paintball
Since we are fascinated by the idea of paintball but would usually just rather stay inside scrapbooking, this is one idea we never would have thought of on our own. It comes courtesy Dylan Alexander, author of Online Casanova , who tells us "the downtime in between games" is a good time to meet women, as everyone is in an excited state and there's a feeling of high energy in the field or forest or jungle or wherever it is you do such things. One downside: the goggles and facemasks can make it difficult to see who you're talking to.
11. Strip Clubs
Yes, you read that right. Another of Alexander's suggestions. But don't go for the strippers, he says. "Go for the girls who go to watch. They are in an excited state and tipsy, and there's lots of downtime between dancers." You're best off approaching the whole group, although if it's a girl's night out you might have your work cut out for you. In which case, you can always get a lap dance.
A great article writtem by By Shawn Conner and emailed to me by a friend.
Saturday, July 5, 2008
A fun little article, when you need to get some hints.
This is a fun little email I received and thought I'd share with all you guys out there. Read it then go hug your wife and get to work, not with a beer in hand either ;)
What your wife wishes you would do this summer.
One woman finds a way to let her husband know she needs a well-deserved break.
A little note
Memo to: Love of My Life (Hereafter, LOML)
From: Love of Your Life (Hereafter, LOYL)
Re: Summer
As per our 768 rushed conversations this past month, you know that so far this summer I have:
• booked the kids into four activity-laden (a.k.a. enriching) day camps;
• arranged and taken kids to doctor, dentist and optometrist appointments;
• completed all summer clothing shopping, which included obtaining, returning and repurchasing (in new sizes) 16 pairs of shoes;
• and tended to seven sunburns, four skinned knees and 42 tantrums caused by near-miss bee stings.
I have accomplished these tasks while preparing 99 meals (44 vegetarian) and processing 1,002 loads of laundry.
Heartfelt burps are duly noted as signs of your gratitude, but I would appreciate being “recognized” in more tangible ways. In discussion with my peers (you know how we gals talk!), I have crafted the following compensation package.
1. Here is my No. 1 secret fantasy: Show me you care by taking over all -- and I mean ALL -- the mundane household details for one week, one day, even one evening. Meanwhile, deliver a chilled glass of wine and decor mags to me on the deck with a cheerful, “Don't move an inch, hon. You deserve some time off.” (I get misty-eyed imagining it.)
2. I am tired of using the pliers to open the bathroom door (you put the knob on the windowsill “temporarily” back in January 2006). The Christmas lights are really ready to come down off the front porch -- no one will think you're rushing the season away -- and I'm fed up with that box of old LPs you've been promising to sort through since Boy George was, well, still a boy. I know you have that fabulous toolbox with all the gadgets lined up in rows (how perfect it would be for my jewelry!). Please use it to make at least a few of the household projects you promised to do just after you said “in sickness and health.” You really don't want me to call that hunky handyman all my girlfriends rave about now, do you?
3. “Let's go crazy, let's go nuts,” sang Prince oh-so-long ago. Long, hot summer nights are tailor-made for breaking out of the routine. Let's dance in the backyard under the stars. Get out the bikes and take me for a spin after supper. Invite my friends over for a spur-of-the-moment barbecue.
4. Homer Simpson is not my idea of sexy. Can you make some effort to get back into shape? Keep this thought in mind, though: abs and biceps equals h-e-l-l-o, handsome! Hairy blubber equals not tonight, I have a headache.
5. You know how much you value your fishing trip with the guys? I'd like a weekend away, too. Send me to a spa, either on my own or with my gal pals. Book it and surprise me.
Thank you in advance for your consideration of these requests. Your recognition of my extra efforts will not only result in improved job satisfaction on my part but will also go a long way toward strengthening our partnership.
Yours truly and forever, LOYL
What your wife wishes you would do this summer.
One woman finds a way to let her husband know she needs a well-deserved break.
A little note
Memo to: Love of My Life (Hereafter, LOML)
From: Love of Your Life (Hereafter, LOYL)
Re: Summer
As per our 768 rushed conversations this past month, you know that so far this summer I have:
• booked the kids into four activity-laden (a.k.a. enriching) day camps;
• arranged and taken kids to doctor, dentist and optometrist appointments;
• completed all summer clothing shopping, which included obtaining, returning and repurchasing (in new sizes) 16 pairs of shoes;
• and tended to seven sunburns, four skinned knees and 42 tantrums caused by near-miss bee stings.
I have accomplished these tasks while preparing 99 meals (44 vegetarian) and processing 1,002 loads of laundry.
Heartfelt burps are duly noted as signs of your gratitude, but I would appreciate being “recognized” in more tangible ways. In discussion with my peers (you know how we gals talk!), I have crafted the following compensation package.
1. Here is my No. 1 secret fantasy: Show me you care by taking over all -- and I mean ALL -- the mundane household details for one week, one day, even one evening. Meanwhile, deliver a chilled glass of wine and decor mags to me on the deck with a cheerful, “Don't move an inch, hon. You deserve some time off.” (I get misty-eyed imagining it.)
2. I am tired of using the pliers to open the bathroom door (you put the knob on the windowsill “temporarily” back in January 2006). The Christmas lights are really ready to come down off the front porch -- no one will think you're rushing the season away -- and I'm fed up with that box of old LPs you've been promising to sort through since Boy George was, well, still a boy. I know you have that fabulous toolbox with all the gadgets lined up in rows (how perfect it would be for my jewelry!). Please use it to make at least a few of the household projects you promised to do just after you said “in sickness and health.” You really don't want me to call that hunky handyman all my girlfriends rave about now, do you?
3. “Let's go crazy, let's go nuts,” sang Prince oh-so-long ago. Long, hot summer nights are tailor-made for breaking out of the routine. Let's dance in the backyard under the stars. Get out the bikes and take me for a spin after supper. Invite my friends over for a spur-of-the-moment barbecue.
4. Homer Simpson is not my idea of sexy. Can you make some effort to get back into shape? Keep this thought in mind, though: abs and biceps equals h-e-l-l-o, handsome! Hairy blubber equals not tonight, I have a headache.
5. You know how much you value your fishing trip with the guys? I'd like a weekend away, too. Send me to a spa, either on my own or with my gal pals. Book it and surprise me.
Thank you in advance for your consideration of these requests. Your recognition of my extra efforts will not only result in improved job satisfaction on my part but will also go a long way toward strengthening our partnership.
Yours truly and forever, LOYL
Friday, July 4, 2008
What Do Women Want? 3 Most Shocking Secrets You Have Been Desperately Searching For
There has always been a great debate over what women truly want in her man and what they normally prefer in a man. Almost every man out there wants to know what women really want as women are not very open specially when it comes to discussing their wants and emotional needs. All the answers you have been looking for are finally exposed now. Read on to discover some of the most shocking facts on what women truly want in a man and achieve earth shattering results............
How you make them feel- Women are always in the look out for males who can really make them feel good about themselves. You must make all possible attempts to make her feel good about herself because the more she feels good about herself in your company the more she will like you.
A man who has a vision- It is often said that money matters a lot to women which might be true to a certain extent but what really matters to them is the vision. What they truly want to see in a man is the vision. They want to be with someone who knows where he is going rather than someone who is stumbling through life trying to find his way out.
A man who can commit in the long term- Now this is the most vital aspect a woman looks for in her man. We are in the age where people change partners like they change their clothes and trust is one thing which has become very hard to find in a human being. This is the reason why women are always in the look out for a man who is not scared to commit in the long term.
An absolute must know for you- This secret is an absolute must know for you no matter what. This is the grand daddy of all which would give you the ultimate power to become a magnet towards which every woman would be attracted. This is only known to a few and you are one of the lucky one's who are being introduced to this shocking secret.
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How you make them feel- Women are always in the look out for males who can really make them feel good about themselves. You must make all possible attempts to make her feel good about herself because the more she feels good about herself in your company the more she will like you.
A man who has a vision- It is often said that money matters a lot to women which might be true to a certain extent but what really matters to them is the vision. What they truly want to see in a man is the vision. They want to be with someone who knows where he is going rather than someone who is stumbling through life trying to find his way out.
A man who can commit in the long term- Now this is the most vital aspect a woman looks for in her man. We are in the age where people change partners like they change their clothes and trust is one thing which has become very hard to find in a human being. This is the reason why women are always in the look out for a man who is not scared to commit in the long term.
An absolute must know for you- This secret is an absolute must know for you no matter what. This is the grand daddy of all which would give you the ultimate power to become a magnet towards which every woman would be attracted. This is only known to a few and you are one of the lucky one's who are being introduced to this shocking secret.
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Thursday, July 3, 2008
I keep getting dumped
Do you feel as if you know the drill that goes like this? First, the dates aren’t as fun. Then the calls stop getting returned. Next, the relationship ends. The tears fall. Your heart breaks. It’s over. Again.
“Rejection cuts deep because it slices at our core need to be loved,” explains LeslieBeth Wish, a Sarasota-based psychologist. But you can recover and even reduce your chances of rejection.
Here’s how.
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1. Put it in writing. Dallas-based dating coach Victorya Michaels Rogers finds value in journaling about your relationship patterns. “What really happened? Was he ‘all that’ or just an addiction? Were you in love with him or the idea of him? Often the pain is about the act of rejection rather than who did the rejecting,” she notes. “It’s important to know what is really behind the pain so you can regain self-esteem and move on. And writing it out reveals to your head — logically — what happened so you can move beyond the illogical grip of emotions. You’ll grow as a person and recover more quickly.”
2. Love yourself. “Instead of spending tremendous amounts of energy worrying if I’ll ever meet someone new, I work on loving myself,” says Lone Morch, a Bay Area photographer who has been dealing with rejection. “I ask my ‘inner lover’ — the one who is so good to the people I date — what she would do, how she would treat me and show me she cares. I believe that only when we love ourselves and treat ourselves with respect will we attract people who will do the same. So love thyself. Develop the most fantastic relationship with yourself and see what happens.”
3. Get a new attitude. Wish suggests developing a new mantra that will help you get through the rough patches. “Repeat every morning and night: ‘It’s probably not about me. I have these good qualities...’ Then list them. People choose partners for highly personal — and often wrong — reasons.” You can also use a mantra to get clear on what you need to do to turn the tide. “Try posing yourself challenges like, ‘If I take an educated guess, I would say that I need to improve on…” or ‘My best guess is that I’m choosing people who are…’ ‘So, I should look for people who are more…’
4. Get by with a little help from your friends. “I was on a really bad dating streak,” recalls Tom Karl of Kitsap, WA. “I was feeling horrible about myself, but my friends really helped me purge the bad feelings and focus on what I had to offer. They also got me back out there so I was still in the game. It didn’t make the pain of getting rejected any less, of course, but it kept me from spending the rest of my life alone in front of the TV eating bad delivery pizza.”
5. Learn to make better decisions. You’re less likely to get jilted if you make better decisions about which people to date in the first place. “A wise woman once told me that the sign of a good match or relationship, even very early on, was how you felt about yourself after you were with the other person,” says New York-based drama therapist Jennifer Wilson. “When the glow and immediacy is over and you are alone, how do you feel about yourself? When you honor how being with another makes you feel about yourself, then you may make choices that are better for you.”
“If you’ve been repeatedly rejected, it’s time to say, ‘Enough is enough’,” asserts Rogers, author of The Automatic Second Date. “Ask God to reveal what’s behind all the rejection. Then accept your part — poor choices, low self-esteem, too needy, or too much too soon — and give it over to God. If you’re willing to accept your part, tweak your dating skills and actively live the life you want to live, your ideal mate will finally appear in God’s perfect timing.”
North Carolina-based freelancer Margot Carmichael Lester also pens the Ask Margot advice column. Write her at AskMargot@match.com.
“Rejection cuts deep because it slices at our core need to be loved,” explains LeslieBeth Wish, a Sarasota-based psychologist. But you can recover and even reduce your chances of rejection.
Here’s how.
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1. Put it in writing. Dallas-based dating coach Victorya Michaels Rogers finds value in journaling about your relationship patterns. “What really happened? Was he ‘all that’ or just an addiction? Were you in love with him or the idea of him? Often the pain is about the act of rejection rather than who did the rejecting,” she notes. “It’s important to know what is really behind the pain so you can regain self-esteem and move on. And writing it out reveals to your head — logically — what happened so you can move beyond the illogical grip of emotions. You’ll grow as a person and recover more quickly.”
2. Love yourself. “Instead of spending tremendous amounts of energy worrying if I’ll ever meet someone new, I work on loving myself,” says Lone Morch, a Bay Area photographer who has been dealing with rejection. “I ask my ‘inner lover’ — the one who is so good to the people I date — what she would do, how she would treat me and show me she cares. I believe that only when we love ourselves and treat ourselves with respect will we attract people who will do the same. So love thyself. Develop the most fantastic relationship with yourself and see what happens.”
3. Get a new attitude. Wish suggests developing a new mantra that will help you get through the rough patches. “Repeat every morning and night: ‘It’s probably not about me. I have these good qualities...’ Then list them. People choose partners for highly personal — and often wrong — reasons.” You can also use a mantra to get clear on what you need to do to turn the tide. “Try posing yourself challenges like, ‘If I take an educated guess, I would say that I need to improve on…” or ‘My best guess is that I’m choosing people who are…’ ‘So, I should look for people who are more…’
4. Get by with a little help from your friends. “I was on a really bad dating streak,” recalls Tom Karl of Kitsap, WA. “I was feeling horrible about myself, but my friends really helped me purge the bad feelings and focus on what I had to offer. They also got me back out there so I was still in the game. It didn’t make the pain of getting rejected any less, of course, but it kept me from spending the rest of my life alone in front of the TV eating bad delivery pizza.”
5. Learn to make better decisions. You’re less likely to get jilted if you make better decisions about which people to date in the first place. “A wise woman once told me that the sign of a good match or relationship, even very early on, was how you felt about yourself after you were with the other person,” says New York-based drama therapist Jennifer Wilson. “When the glow and immediacy is over and you are alone, how do you feel about yourself? When you honor how being with another makes you feel about yourself, then you may make choices that are better for you.”
“If you’ve been repeatedly rejected, it’s time to say, ‘Enough is enough’,” asserts Rogers, author of The Automatic Second Date. “Ask God to reveal what’s behind all the rejection. Then accept your part — poor choices, low self-esteem, too needy, or too much too soon — and give it over to God. If you’re willing to accept your part, tweak your dating skills and actively live the life you want to live, your ideal mate will finally appear in God’s perfect timing.”North Carolina-based freelancer Margot Carmichael Lester also pens the Ask Margot advice column. Write her at AskMargot@match.com.
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
Why Am I Still Single? - Online Dating, Dating and Chat Etiquette For Singles
Have you ever looked at your friends who have long term relationships and wondered "when will it be my turn?" Do you ever wonder when Mr. or Ms. Right will come along, and why the universe seems to be making you wait in loneliness and despair? Have you ever thought you're doing something that may be keeping potential mates running scared?
Online dating is helping many singles get out of this rut, thanks to the wonderful world of the internet. This new twist to dating however cannot change you and your possible errors whilst dating in the real world. Perhaps you're making some of these mistakes?
Lets take a look at your appearance and personal hygiene?
Take some time to get ready for your date. Brush those pearly whites. Freshen up your breath. When you chat with your date, bad breath will instantly be a turn off and more times than not end the date pretty quick. SHOWER! Men, be sure to use deodorant. Ladies, don't go overboard on the makeup or perfume, real guys don't like overload when it comes to makeup, we want to see you for who you are, not a fake-barbie girl. Wera appropriate clothing, common sense here, don't wear a suit if you're going for a walk in the park, unless a big night is planned, you get the idea.
Be on your best behaviour, your mom didn't raise you badly now did she ;)
Simply remember this, guys contrary to poular belief, chivalry is NOT dead. Most women appreciate the extra touches. As for you gals, keep eye contact and show interest, if you're bored say so. Men are not mind reader's, we can barely read our own.
Take your time with date one, chat about each other, likes dislikes etc, don't go discussing why you hate your ex. Noone wants to hear about it, this is now, that was then. Enjoy the moment.
Pay attention, there may be a test later. :)
"Uh huh," "yep," "Oh, right..." - you might as well jump ship with that level of interest. This implies that you're bored and would rather be somewhere else, be attentive and show genuine interest, ask questions, make it a conversation, not a lecture.
If you met through an online dating service, you better have your pic on there.
All to often I have heard of guys and gals meeting online and then meeting in person and the photo online is not even close to the person in real life. Instant date killer. As it should be. A photo-lie speaks volumes about you. It tells him/her you are in every sense of the word you are in simple english a liar. Game over.
Are you posing or acting conceited?
A show off is a big turn off, be proud of what you have accomplished while speaking of it but don't come off as being better than the world, you aren't. There is always someone better, so be humble, it shows sincerity and realism.
Don't be TOO modest!
Guys and girls alike don't like people looking for compliments, negativity and insecurity are BIG turn offs.
Don't expect sex the first date, unless you met with the understanding that was part of the evening. 'Nuff said.
A first date will help you both decide if a second is in order, if it is great. But don't push the issue let it happen. That's the best way. A possible future is never going to happen when someone feels pressured.
As far as a good night kiss, you'll know.
Online dating is helping many singles get out of this rut, thanks to the wonderful world of the internet. This new twist to dating however cannot change you and your possible errors whilst dating in the real world. Perhaps you're making some of these mistakes?
Lets take a look at your appearance and personal hygiene?
Take some time to get ready for your date. Brush those pearly whites. Freshen up your breath. When you chat with your date, bad breath will instantly be a turn off and more times than not end the date pretty quick. SHOWER! Men, be sure to use deodorant. Ladies, don't go overboard on the makeup or perfume, real guys don't like overload when it comes to makeup, we want to see you for who you are, not a fake-barbie girl. Wera appropriate clothing, common sense here, don't wear a suit if you're going for a walk in the park, unless a big night is planned, you get the idea.
Be on your best behaviour, your mom didn't raise you badly now did she ;)
Simply remember this, guys contrary to poular belief, chivalry is NOT dead. Most women appreciate the extra touches. As for you gals, keep eye contact and show interest, if you're bored say so. Men are not mind reader's, we can barely read our own.
Take your time with date one, chat about each other, likes dislikes etc, don't go discussing why you hate your ex. Noone wants to hear about it, this is now, that was then. Enjoy the moment.
Pay attention, there may be a test later. :)
"Uh huh," "yep," "Oh, right..." - you might as well jump ship with that level of interest. This implies that you're bored and would rather be somewhere else, be attentive and show genuine interest, ask questions, make it a conversation, not a lecture.
If you met through an online dating service, you better have your pic on there.
All to often I have heard of guys and gals meeting online and then meeting in person and the photo online is not even close to the person in real life. Instant date killer. As it should be. A photo-lie speaks volumes about you. It tells him/her you are in every sense of the word you are in simple english a liar. Game over.
Are you posing or acting conceited?
A show off is a big turn off, be proud of what you have accomplished while speaking of it but don't come off as being better than the world, you aren't. There is always someone better, so be humble, it shows sincerity and realism.
Don't be TOO modest!
Guys and girls alike don't like people looking for compliments, negativity and insecurity are BIG turn offs.
Don't expect sex the first date, unless you met with the understanding that was part of the evening. 'Nuff said.
A first date will help you both decide if a second is in order, if it is great. But don't push the issue let it happen. That's the best way. A possible future is never going to happen when someone feels pressured.
As far as a good night kiss, you'll know.
Saturday, June 28, 2008
Grilled Fish with Sweet Mango Barbecue Sauce
Found this online, 'twas delic!!!
Two favorites on the island of Barbados are fish and mango. This dish is the best of both in the Bajan world. Enjoy this dish on a cool summer evening with a glass of wine, or with friends for a backyard get-together.
This recipe is a favorite at Food Affairs, prepared by Chef David Watts.
Ingredients:
4 marlin or dolphin steaks, or other meaty fish, cut 1" thick, brushed with olive oil and pressed garlic, and seasoned with salt and pepper.
For the barbeque sauce:
1tbsp olive oil
1/2 onion, diced
1/2 hot pepper, seeded
1/4 cup pureed mango
2 tbsp Worcestershire sauce
1/4 apple cider vinegar
1 tbsp Dijon mustard
1/2 cup brown sugar
1 cup beef stock
1 tsp Tabasco
1 pinch salt
1 cup beer
In a large saucepan, over high heat, saute onions and pepper in oil. Add remaining ingredients, bring to a boil then simmer over medium/low heat for 30 minutes. Puree sauce in a blender or food processor.
If using a barbeque grill, heat for 10 to 15 minutes on high. Or, if using a grill pan or a frying pan, heat to medium high. Sear the fish for 4 to 5 minutes per side, or until almost completely opaque. Brush 3/4 of the barbeque sauce onto both sides and grill an additional 1 minute per side. For those who prefer their fish medium rare, reduce cooking time to 3 1/2 minutes per side. Top with the reaming sauce and serve.
Billy O'Dell, with his wife Carolyn, is the owner of BarbadosBarbados.com, an online concierge to Barbados. The O'Dells also run Food Affairs, a popular Bajan catering company.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Billy_O'Dell
Two favorites on the island of Barbados are fish and mango. This dish is the best of both in the Bajan world. Enjoy this dish on a cool summer evening with a glass of wine, or with friends for a backyard get-together.
This recipe is a favorite at Food Affairs, prepared by Chef David Watts.
Ingredients:
4 marlin or dolphin steaks, or other meaty fish, cut 1" thick, brushed with olive oil and pressed garlic, and seasoned with salt and pepper.
For the barbeque sauce:
1tbsp olive oil
1/2 onion, diced
1/2 hot pepper, seeded
1/4 cup pureed mango
2 tbsp Worcestershire sauce
1/4 apple cider vinegar
1 tbsp Dijon mustard
1/2 cup brown sugar
1 cup beef stock
1 tsp Tabasco
1 pinch salt
1 cup beer
In a large saucepan, over high heat, saute onions and pepper in oil. Add remaining ingredients, bring to a boil then simmer over medium/low heat for 30 minutes. Puree sauce in a blender or food processor.
If using a barbeque grill, heat for 10 to 15 minutes on high. Or, if using a grill pan or a frying pan, heat to medium high. Sear the fish for 4 to 5 minutes per side, or until almost completely opaque. Brush 3/4 of the barbeque sauce onto both sides and grill an additional 1 minute per side. For those who prefer their fish medium rare, reduce cooking time to 3 1/2 minutes per side. Top with the reaming sauce and serve.
Billy O'Dell, with his wife Carolyn, is the owner of BarbadosBarbados.com, an online concierge to Barbados. The O'Dells also run Food Affairs, a popular Bajan catering company.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Billy_O'Dell
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