Happy Love Day

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It is Valentine's day, and I hope everyone has a great day. You, in relationship's enjoy each others company and memories and love...and you single folks simply enjoy the day, maybe Cupid's arrow will hit it's mark.

Interesting thing about Valentine's day is the pressure....it's like Christmas, there is pressure to buy flower's or chocolate's or whatever for your special someone for today...but what about the rest of the year?

Valentine's day (or at least the theme of it) should be practiced every day with your significant other. The difference you see in your relationship will improve drastically.

Ins May wrote a great article on this point called:

10 simple things you can do to add happiness to your relationship.

Here are the basics for you.

First. Laugh together

Laughter has been proven to reduce stress, elevate mood, and dissolve anger; it truly is the best medicine for any couple especially when things are a little rough between the two of you.

Second, Have a date night

Remember the excitement you felt each time you saw your honey, back in the dating phase of your relationship? Bring it back with a regular date night--no matter how busy your schedules get--to show each other just how important this time together is for you.

Third. Take interest in his hobbies, love this one.

Try showing an interest in one of his hobbies--for example, go play cheerleader at a few of his soccer games, ask him to explain hockey to you, or to teach you how to play his favourite videogame--and watch his face light up. Who knows, you may learn to love some of his favourite things, giving you even more things in common.

Fourth. Try a new activity

Pick an activity—one that you’d both enjoy--and do it together; take salsa classes, start rock climbing, etc. Not only will you open yourselves to new experiences, but sharing them together will bring you closer, not to mention increase the time you spend with one another.

Five. Spend some time apart

Let’s face it, even the happiest couple can’t be together all the time. Make sure to regularly designate a night that’s reserved only for you and your friends. You’ll retain some of your independence, it make's a difference.

Six. Spend some time alone

In relationships, we sometimes lose ourselves in the role of so-and-so’s girlfriend, or what’s-his-name’s wife. In order to keep priorities, goals, and feelings in check, spend some quality time solo. The important thing is not to lose track of who you are.

Seven. Spoil him/her at least once a week

We don’t mean breaking the bank to shower him with weekly gifts, but rather showing him how much he means to you with small gestures; like bringing him coffee in bed, making his favourite dish for supper, or offering to rub his neck after a long day. These little actions will make him feel special.

Eight. Spice things up in the bedroom

Sex is an important part of a healthy and happy relationship. Add some excitement to your regular bedroom routine by trying new positions, incorporating props, playing games, revealing and fulfilling fantasies… the possibilities are endless!

Nine. Be spontaneous

It’s easy to let a relationship fall into a routine, but surprising your partner with an unplanned outing or an impromptu getaway is a sure way to keep boredom at bay.

Ten. Compliment him/her

Compliments, the ones that come from the heart, will show your partner that you appreciate him and still notice and value his qualities. Plus, you’ll make him feel great; remember how it feels to hear your honey tell you how beautiful and sexy you are? Return the favour, once in a while.


Well said. It is true how we all make Valentine's Day a priority isn't it. Seriously guy's make it everyday and you will be the envy of your friends since y will have a helluva better relationship.